The no-brainer date night assistant

Never plan, or miss, a date night again

Your date night assistant plans it all for you. Every week, four dates picked for the two of you, in your city and your budget, land in both your inboxes. You just pick one and show up. Date night keeps happening, and so does the romance.

  • Four dates in both inboxes, every week
  • Real places near you, in your budget
  • A Spotify playlist and a cute photo idea with every date
One-time purchase · uses Claude (preferred) or ChatGPT
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Sound familiar?

You love each other. You just never get around to planning date night

  • "We should really do a date night" turns into another month of takeout and scrolling
  • One of you always ends up planning, and it's exhausting
  • The same two restaurants, the same three shows
  • You look up and realize you don't have a single new photo of the two of you
  • You miss the version of you two that used to go out and do things

It's not that you stopped trying. Nobody has time to plan romance on top of everything else. So now it's planned for you.

Dates like these, every week

The dates you'll actually go on

Picked for your city and your budget, with the photo to take while you're there. Here's a taste of what lands in your inbox.

Ready when you areJump right in
7The Date Deck · only $7DIY date ideas, mood boards and a Notion dashboard. No AI needed.Get the deck → AThe Date Night Kit · just $27Four dates planned for you every week, in both inboxes. Needs a Claude (preferred) or ChatGPT account.Plan my dates →
What you actually get

Your dates arrive like an invitation

Runs on your Claude (preferred) or ChatGPT account. Every week on the day you choose, both of you get an email. Four dates made for you, a Spotify playlist, a photo idea, and everything you need to book it. Pick one, and it's on the calendar.

Your Date Night Assistantto you and your person
Thu 9:00 AM
Your four dates for this weekend ♥

Hey you two, here's this week's lineup. Everything is within 20 minutes of home and fits the budget you set.

Romantic
Candlelit corner table, then dessert to shareRomantic · book a 7:30 table
$$
Splurge
Rooftop bar at golden hourThe splurge · go at sunset
$$$
Out and about
Pottery class for two, then tacosOut and about · 2 seats left
$$
Cozy at home
Candles, a good bottle, phones in a drawerCozy at home · after bedtime
$
Your Spotify playlistCorner table, low lights · 12 songs
PLAY
The shotYour shadows on the wall at golden hour
YOU'RE INVITED Saturday Candlelit corner table 7:30 PM · 12 min from home
DRESS UPPLAYLISTTHE SHOT
with love
NovemberDATE NIGHT BOOKED
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Date night · candlelit corner tableSaturday 7:30 PM

The whole night, curated

Every date comes with everything you need, so all that's left is showing up.

Red velvet theater seats
The Rialto · 8:15 showBook the middle seats
The planWhere and whenThe spot, the best time to go, and whether to book ahead.
A record bar lit in red neon
Corner table, low lightsSpotify · 12 songs
The soundtrackA Spotify playlistSongs for the drive there and the night in, picked for the mood.
A mural that reads i love you so much
Inspo shotStand left, phone low, one candid
The shotA photo worth postingThe cute photo to take while you're there, so you have content of you two.
Two glasses of red wine at home
Rain check?Swap to a wine night in
Plan BA rainy-night backupWeather turns or the sitter cancels? A cozy at-home swap is ready.
Picture your week

You don't plan a thing. You just show up

  1. Thursday · 9:00 AMYour four dates land

    In both inboxes, so nobody has to bring it up first.

  2. Thursday · lunchYou text "this one?"

    Pick one in a minute. Heart it, book it, done.

  3. FridayIt's on the calendar

    Reservation set, sitter booked, playlist saved.

  4. Saturday · 7:30 PMDate night actually happens

    The good outfit, the corner table, the playlist on the drive.

  5. SundayYou post the cutest photo

    Because the inspo shot told you exactly where to stand.

How it works

Your dating assistant gets to know you two

1

One of you takes the quiz

About ten minutes, answered by whoever's planning: where you live, what you both love, what you'd never do, and what a normal date night should cost.

2

Set it up once

Our step-by-step guide walks you through adding your couple profile to your Claude account (preferred) or ChatGPT, picking your day and adding both emails.

3

It searches your city every week

Openings, events, new spots and the classics you keep forgetting, matched to the two of you and sent to both inboxes.

Couple profile · example

Sam & Jordan

Home
East side, 20-minute radius
Budget
$60 most weeks, one splurge a month
Love
Live music, tacos, anything with a view
Never
Karaoke, early mornings
Nights
Fridays or Saturdays, sitter until 11
Delivery
Thursdays, both inboxes
Pick your hand

Deal me in

One-time purchase. No subscription. Your date nights, handled.

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No AI needed

The Date Deck

$7one time
  • A digital deck of DIY and low-budget date ideas
  • A Pinterest-style mood board for every date
  • A Notion date dashboard to plan dates and track the ones you've done
  • You plan it yourself, from the deck
Get the deck only $7
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The full house

All In

$57one time
  • Everything in the Date Night Kit
  • Your astrology date reading for the two of you
  • Custom love coupons made from your quiz, like "3 hours of uninterrupted game time"
  • Deeper big-day plans: surprises, gift ideas and the countdown
Go all in just $57 Requires a Claude account (preferred) or ChatGPT
Kit + astrology add-on = $54. All In is $57 and adds custom coupons and deeper big-day plans.

Fine print: the $27 Kit and $57 All In run inside your own Claude account (preferred) or ChatGPT account. No AI account? Start with the Date Deck for only $7. No new app, no monthly fee from us.

Whoever's holding the cards

For the queen of date night

You plan everything. Now it's planned for you.

No more booking it, finding the sitter, picking the place and hearing "wherever you want." The dates show up, and so does your person, because it landed in their inbox too.

For the king of date night

Get it right without guessing.

Four ideas a week she'll actually love, near you, with the details handled and the one move that makes it feel planned. You look good. She feels thought of.

Why it works

Keep the romance alive

Date night doesn't fade because you stop loving each other. It fades because nobody had time to plan it.

Without it

"We should really go out."

  • Date night gets pushed, then forgotten
  • The same two restaurants on repeat
  • One of you does all the planning, every time
  • "I don't care, wherever you want"
  • Months go by without a single photo of you two
With your date night assistant

It's already planned.

  • Four dates show up every week, done for you
  • New places in your city you'd never have found
  • Both of you see it, so both of you show up
  • Pick one in a minute and put it on the calendar
  • Cute photos from every date, and a year of memories
The Date Night Kit

What's inside

The couple quiz

Ten minutes, one of you

Whoever takes it answers for both. It becomes your couple profile: tastes, budget, neighborhood, dealbreakers and the dates you keep meaning to do.

Your date night assistant

Set it up once

A step-by-step guide with screenshots, so your assistant is running in one sitting, even if you've never done anything like it.

Weekly dates

Four dates, both inboxes

On the day you choose: something romantic, a splurge, something out and about, and a cozy night in.

Inspo shot + Spotify playlist

Content and a soundtrack

A photo idea for the spot you're going and a Spotify playlist for the night, so you leave with photos you actually want to post.

The Date Deck

DIY and low-budget dates

A digital deck of inspo dates with Pinterest-style mood boards: picnic nights, at-home dinners and cheap-and-cute ideas for any week.

Love IOUs

Promises to cash in

Little digital IOUs to text each other. Save them, send them, cash them in on a slow week.

Ready when you areJump right in
7The Date Deck · only $7DIY date ideas, mood boards and a Notion dashboard. No AI needed.Get the deck → AThe Date Night Kit · just $27Four dates planned for you every week, in both inboxes. Needs a Claude (preferred) or ChatGPT account.Plan my dates →
A couple dancing in silhouette A couple's shadows on a sunlit door Two people holding hands while walking
Inspo photo ideas included

Don't you wish you had cute photos of the two of you?

Now you will. Your dates come with inspo shots for the places you go, so you leave with content you actually want to post, and a camera roll full of the two of you again.

INSPO SHOT
POV: date night planned itself
@you.twogolden hour, a bare wall, us
2.4k
INSPO SHOT
the mural every couple needs a photo at
@you.twofound it on this week's date
1.8k
INSPO SHOT
he finally took me dancing
@you.twosunset spin, timer on
3.1k
INSPO SHOT
dressed up for no reason at all
@you.twodate night fit check
2.7k
INSPO SHOT
loser plans next week
@you.twochess date in the park
1.1k
INSPO SHOT
road trip to nowhere
@you.twothis week's out-and-about date
1.6k
INSPO SHOT
sunday mornings are for us
@you.twocozy date, phones away
2.2k
INSPO SHOT
candlelit dinner at home
@you.twothe at-home date, done right
1.9k
Try it

Pull a card

Tap a card to see a real date from this week's hand: the plan, the playlist and the shot.

Love notes

Date night, back on

What couples say once date night stops being a someday thing.

Example reviews
A2 weeks ago
★★★★★
"We went on more dates in one month than all of last year."
Jess & MarcoTogether 6 years · two kids
A1 month ago
★★★★★
"I used to plan every single date. Now it just shows up and he books it."
Taylor R.Married 4 years
A3 days ago
★★★★★
"Honestly the playlist alone. We play it every Saturday now."
Priya & SamDating 1 year
A5 days ago
★★★★★
"It found a spot ten minutes from us we'd never heard of."
Alyssa M.Just moved to Austin
A2 weeks ago
★★★★★
"We went on more dates in one month than all of last year."
Jess & MarcoTogether 6 years · two kids
A1 month ago
★★★★★
"I used to plan every single date. Now it just shows up and he books it."
Taylor R.Married 4 years
A3 days ago
★★★★★
"Honestly the playlist alone. We play it every Saturday now."
Priya & SamDating 1 year
A5 days ago
★★★★★
"It found a spot ten minutes from us we'd never heard of."
Alyssa M.Just moved to Austin
A1 week ago
★★★★★
"I finally have cute photos of us that aren't from three years ago."
Brooke & DevinTogether 3 years
A2 months ago
★★★★★
"Took ten minutes to set up. I didn't even need my husband for the quiz."
Kendall T.Married 9 years
A3 weeks ago
★★★★★
"As the guy, it makes me look like I planned the whole thing."
Marcus J.Engaged
A6 days ago
★★★★★
"Our Spades nights in are better than most nights out."
Nia & ChrisParents of a newborn
A1 week ago
★★★★★
"I finally have cute photos of us that aren't from three years ago."
Brooke & DevinTogether 3 years
A2 months ago
★★★★★
"Took ten minutes to set up. I didn't even need my husband for the quiz."
Kendall T.Married 9 years
A3 weeks ago
★★★★★
"As the guy, it makes me look like I planned the whole thing."
Marcus J.Engaged
A6 days ago
★★★★★
"Our Spades nights in are better than most nights out."
Nia & ChrisParents of a newborn
Who this is for

Every kind of couple

  • Couples who love date night but keep landing at the same two restaurants.

  • Parents who finally booked the sitter and want the night to count.

  • The default planner who wants to be taken out for once.

  • The partner who wants to plan more and just needs the ideas.

  • Busy couples whose calendars are full of everything except each other.

  • Homebodies who want better nights in, not just another episode.

  • Couples who just moved and don't know the city yet.

  • New couples and long-haul couples, college to forty-something, any city.

Not for anyone who refuses to plan, ever. You still have to pick one.

A couple holding hands while walking, in black and white
Ask us anything

Still have questions?

10 minto take the quiz
4dates every week
2inboxes, both of you
1×one-time fee · no subscription

How it works

What exactly do we get each week?

One email, sent to both of you on the day you choose, with four date ideas made for you (one from each suit), the details you need to book or plan each one, and the shot: a photo idea for the date.

Do we need ChatGPT or Claude?

For the Kit and All In, yes. Your assistant runs in your own Claude account (we recommend Claude) or ChatGPT, and the setup guide shows exactly what you need. No account and don't want one? The $7 Date Deck works with no AI at all.

We're not techy. Is setup hard?

If you can copy, paste and click a button, you can do it. The setup guide has a screenshot for every step, and setup takes one sitting.

How long does setup take?

About ten minutes for the quiz, which one of you can take alone, and a short sitting to set up your assistant with the guide.

Do we both have to take the quiz?

No. Whoever is planning takes it and answers for the two of you. You can always add your partner's favorites later.

How is this different from Googling date ideas?

Google gives you the same top-ten list everyone else gets. Your planner starts from your quiz, so the ideas fit your city, your budget, your schedule and what the two of you actually like, and they show up every week without anyone asking.

Which day do the dates arrive?

Whichever day you choose during setup. A day or two before your usual date night gives you time to book.

Can we change our answers later?

Yes. Moved, new budget, new baby, new favorite food: update your profile and the next week's hand follows it.

Is it right for us

Which one should I get?

Want it done for you? The $27 Kit. Want it done for you plus astrology, custom love coupons and deeper birthday and anniversary plans? All In. Don't use AI and just want great ideas to plan yourself? The $7 Date Deck.

Is this a subscription?

No. Every hand is a one-time purchase. The weekly dates run from your own account, so there's nothing to cancel.

We have kids and a tight budget.

Tell the quiz. You set the budget, the nights you're free and whether a sitter is realistic. The at-home Spades dates are built for exactly that.

We live somewhere small. Will it still work?

Yes. Your planner works from your town and how far you're willing to drive, and leans on at-home and outdoor dates when options are thin.

We're long distance.

Say so in the quiz and your planner can deal dates you can do at the same time from two places, plus ideas for when you're together.

My partner won't be into this.

That's why it goes to both inboxes. Nobody has to pitch anything; the ideas just show up, and picking one takes a minute.

Is it for every kind of couple?

Yes. Dating, engaged, married, together a year or twenty, any couple who wants more nights out of the routine.

Where does our information go?

Your weekly dates are made inside your own ChatGPT or Claude account. We use your email to send your kit and updates, and you can unsubscribe anytime.

Can the dates match our zodiac signs?

Yes. Add the astrology reading for $27 at checkout, or get it in All In. You get a reading for the two of you together, and your weekly dates take your signs into account.

Can I give this as a gift?

Yes. Buy it for your person (or another couple) and send them the quiz link. All In makes the sweetest gift, with custom love coupons made from their answers.

Two cocktails and tarot cards on a cafe table
Add-on · Written in the Stars

Into astrology? Plan your dates by your signs

Add your two signs at checkout and get a reading made for the two of you together: the kinds of dates that bring out the best in your pairing, based on your signs and what you each love. Your weekly dates take it into account from then on.

♈︎ Aries♉︎ Taurus♊︎ Gemini♋︎ Cancer♌︎ Leo♍︎ Virgo♎︎ Libra♏︎ Scorpio♐︎ Sagittarius♑︎ Capricorn♒︎ Aquarius♓︎ Pisces
✦+$27Add it at checkout for just $27
Or get it in All In for only $57
Free date night ideas, every day

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Date ideas for every budget, outfit inspo, couple photo spots and at-home date nights. Save them for later, then let your assistant plan the rest.

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Never fold on date night

Four dates, every week, planned for the two of you. Set it once and keep the romance going all year.

One-time purchase · no subscription · the $27 and $57 require a Claude (preferred) or ChatGPT account